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Basiclly this is how it all happened, he works at the front desk of my school. I had just gotten out of a really bad realtionship ( 3months prior.) I wasn't really paying attention to my surroundings. My mother came in one day with me to sigh papers and she noticed the guy was making like small talk, and always putting his nose into our conversation. She told me that night she thought he liked me, and i told her she was loosing her mind. We went in the next day to finalize things and he said "we should hit kareoke one time." i ignored it as a joke. My mom said he looked upset and she caught him checking me out a few times. Regardless, i started school and an event waas coming up I ended up going and he was there he sat beside me and craacked a few jokes and let his hand rest on my knee.
A FEW WEEKS LATER:
My mother slipped him my number…yes she did it. He texted me and we got talking and he said he always thought i was cute and that he checked me out that day at the event, and he thought I was adorable. Regardless, he also said he could loose his job for talking to me, when i asked why he risked it he said he just felt i was diffrent.
FIRST DATE (in the link)
A MONTH LATER: We were suppose to go out for his bday, but then he ended up going out with some friends, and texted me halfway throught the night (we were suppose to go to his place) and said "want to kow somehting sad? my friend had car troubles…so i didnt see u and didnt go out."
i gave him a gift card from EBGAMES and he texted me a few days later saying he was very happy to get thee new mw3 with his "amazing gift card."
A COUPLE DAYS AGO:
He heard I was talking to some guy and when i was leaving I didnt see hima t the desk, i was standing outside talking to a friend from school (a guy) when he came outside and stood between us, and looked at me and said "cheer up buttercup." when my mom came to get me i jumped in thee car. The second day i was outside and was by myself i got a text "i cu" and it was from him. He was in the corner having a smoke…he looked hot. The third day i perpously walked by the front desk on the phone and said "palo, you can pick me up…what my mom doesn know wont hurt her." So that day I went downstairs and AGAIN he was downstairs this time he touched my shoulder and said "have a good night."
I texted him and i told him he owed me a day and we should see one another he said? "what about that bf of yours?" and i told him i didnt have a bf and he said "palo?" (he was listening to my phone call) i went on to explain he wasnt and bf and he said "intresting"
Regardless i was always scared he just wants to have sex,being im 18 and he's 27……but when i mentioned my birthday and possibly having sex he said,
"It's not that I dont want to have sex. I do. It's just I don't want to hurt you. It's so much more then sex."
&& he also said.
"I wish i had all my **** together. Without everything in check i can't make a commitment."
and he said yesterday. "I wish I had my own place."
My mom says he fell for me harder then he thought….and its not just sex he wnts…he wants me.
Then, talk with your parents about this situation… Bring up things about it that you wish to say…
Good luck!
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